Warning: This is kinda serious so hmmmm bear with me.

My hope is for people to be able to enjoy their life regardless of what’s going on at the time. I have a close friend who has been married for over five years and they still don’t have any children. But, they have always wanted a family of their own. The thing is it never seems to be the right time. Why do people put off what they really want? I do not understand.

I think about the friends I know who put their lives on hold for one reason or another. I myself have fallen into this trap many times. My belief is that we are scared to go after our dreams because we may fail or it will take too much effort. It’s taken me awhile but I’m finally not making excuses and living my life to the fullest. I say.. if you want something just go for it! It’s almost like putting off having children until you are more financially stable. There is no magic in here. One of my good friends has three kids who want for nothing yet money is always an issue. Both parents have to work in order to provide for their children’s daily needs and they are all contented and happy.

We really do need to live for today and not worry so much about tomorrow. The last thing I want is to have regrets about not going after my dreams. You can’t fail if you give it your all no matter what. You can just learn from it.