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Responsible flirting

Posted by kirksydney Popularity: 391 views

Category: My pen & paper

This article was actually inspired by a comment from an unknown girl who lives by the name Shannah, saying that I’m a certified flirt. Haha. That’s funny. I don’t even know her, or I do? Heck if I’m sure of it. I don’t care.

I admit that most people who know me dearly can readily translate my name into that F word. They define me as a classic example of a modern flirt. Alright, that’s fine. Maybe a person who flirts like there’s no tomorrow can be labeled as a horned flirt in some context but what I wanna say, really, is that flirts are just alerts! They know when to act the way they do & they can easily detect one who is, too. Like me.

I know I’m not perfect and no one will ever see me as one. Point of the matter is, being a flirt has its ups and downs. One would never get to be taken seriously when your reputation precedes your true motive. But flirts, most of the time, get the juice. And that, is one of the major truths, we can’t deny.

I am a flirt, that’s a satisfying fact. But that’s not the complete truth. As I have read in some great book by Greg Iles, facts need not necessarily be the whole truth. The fluid truth is: I can be a flirt at some level & I can be true to my feelings when I have to.

Give tagged flirts the chance to prove themselves. We are never always flirts, anyway. We also know when to behave like real lovers do. Flirting has levels of intensity and I need not explain it here. We all have our own personal metric for this. We may all have flirted at some point. And nobody stays as one for life. One has to settle down at some point in time. Finding the other half, is the exact reason.

What we should do then is try to flirt at the right places, at the right time, with the correct person. Whether your motive be sexual or something less mundane, what matters is that one should be held responsible for his or her own actions. Responsible flirting? Amen. That’s not too impossible, I guess.

Flirts, in conclusion, aren’t real devils after all. They just know how to tease.

30 Comments

  • At 2008.10.12 14:11, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
    Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

    Oh yeah. This is just a repost. Hinde kasi nakasama when I moved into a new host. :lol:

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    • At 2008.10.12 14:22, Mumu sa Kanto UNITED ARAB EMIRATES said:
      Using Mozilla Firefox 3.0.3 on Windows Vista

      ai makapagrepost din nga :lol:

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      • At 2008.10.12 14:26, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        Anu namang i-rerepost mo?

      • At 2008.10.13 03:24, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows XP

        Taenang avatar yan. :lol:

    • At 2008.10.12 16:42, aiiya AUSTRALIA said:
      Using Mozilla Firefox 3.0.3 on Windows XP

      My definition of flirting : Flirting is a form of human interaction between two people, usually expressing a sexual or romantic interest. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated.

      LMAO ok i just copied & pasted that but yes that’s my definition.

      In response to your comment on my blog : well what can i say ? us girls are weird creatures so it’s mostly like we’ll choose weird names LMAO ..

      aiiya´s last blog post: MOVED

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      • At 2008.10.13 03:32, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows XP

        Perfect definition. Sa Wikipedia ba yan? :lol:

        And yeah, you girls are weird. No doubt. :lol:

      • At 2008.10.13 13:37, aiiya AUSTRALIA said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 3.0.3 on Windows XP

        Nope hindi sya from wikipedia lol I just searched it up on google tapos yann na ang lumabas ahaha .. astig sana kung ako tlga ang nag icip nyan bahahah ..

        aiiya´s last blog post: MOVED

    • At 2008.10.12 17:22, mayui UNITED STATES said:
      Using Mozilla Firefox 2.0.0.16 on Windows Vista

      wus, justification lang ata yan eh. joke! XP

      mayui´s last blog post: Ready!

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      • At 2008.10.13 03:37, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 3.0.1 on Windows XP

        Wahaha graduate na ko dyan. Nirepost ko lang. :lol:

    • At 2008.10.13 06:43, ayzzz PHILIPPINES said:
      Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

      ang masasabe ko lang e whats wrong with flirting?

      flirting is a game. its he (or she) who gives in first is the loser. flirting is fun. it can be one person’s way of validating his/herself. it can also be used to prove the other’s vulnerability (ay teka! parang mga bad sides ata ng flirting yung sinasabe ko! hahahah)

      anyhoo, i am a self confessed flirt myself. and i find nothing wrong with that. its by flirting that i know when guys are just flirting with me or they’re really serious.. pero that’s just me..

      siguro respeto nalang.. to those who are flirts and to those who doesnt like flirts.. whatever rocks your boat! :D mabuhay ang mga malalande!

      -repost ko lang din comment ko :lol:
      ayzzz´s last blog post: i’ll be in his arms

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      • At 2008.10.13 07:16, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        Hahahaha ni-repost din. Aminadong flirt talaga eh, hinde nakatiis. :lol:

    • At 2008.10.13 07:13, baboyita UNITED STATES said:
      Using Mozilla Firefox 3.0.3 on Windows XP

      ay seryus ito pero wala akong seryus na comment. bow! :lol:

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      • At 2008.10.13 07:17, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        Kunyari lang serious. :lol:
        Uy ayaw saken ng blog mo, ayaw pumasok ng mga comments ko. :cry:

    • At 2008.10.13 07:52, gmac SAUDI ARABIA said:
      Using Internet Explorer 7.0 on Windows XP

      responsible flirting? hehehe. sabi ko na dati responsible pa rin ako kahit nagflert ako. hahaha. juk lang.

      gmac´s last blog post: photobucket photography

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      • At 2008.10.13 08:02, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        Tama yan tol, let’s do things responsibly. :lol:

    • At 2008.10.13 10:22, utakmunggo UNITED KINGDOM said:
      Using Internet Explorer 7.0 on Windows Vista

      responsible flirting:

      just a way to keep them interested, diba. iba rin naman yung mga alembong at kerengkeng. sana wag kang tumulad sa kanila. hehe .. ang ganda ng payo ko. haha

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      • At 2008.10.13 10:40, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        Oo nga, relate na relate pa ko sa mga words na ginamit mo. Hahaha.

    • At 2008.10.13 11:15, kat PHILIPPINES said:
      Using Internet Explorer 6.0 on Windows XP

      aha, gusto ko ito, bilang isang babaeng hindi masyadong nagkaroon ng chance mag-flirt, dahil sa ang meron lang ako ay tatlong serious at long term-relationships mula sixteen years old hanggang ngayon. (ahm, pero yung tatlong yun ay nag-overlap nga pala.) sa totoo lang, iwas ako sa flirting, dahil naeenjoy ko siya. natutuwa ako pag may nagshoshower sakin ng attention, pero bihirang-bihira kong ibalik yung attention na yun. baka kasi pag ginawa ko magtuloy-tuloy.

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      • At 2008.10.13 11:41, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        Huwaw good girl ka pala. Peor teka teka, nag overlap yung tatlo? What do you mean? Nagsabay sabay sila? :o

      • At 2008.10.14 00:31, kat PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Internet Explorer 6.0 on Windows XP

        1st guy jan 02-nov 02
        2nd guy nov 02-april 06 (nagsabay ng mga isang buwan)
        3rd guy december o5-present (nagsabay ng 4 months mahigit)

        pero, good girl ako ha?

        kat´s last blog post: Eraserheads Songs of My Life

      • At 2008.10.14 04:55, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        Huwaw good girl ka pa ng lagay na yan. Paano na kaya kapag naging bad girl ka pa? :lol:

    • At 2008.10.13 13:48, MARU PHILIPPINES said:
      Using Safari 525.21 on Windows XP

      Flirts, in conclusion, aren’t real devils after all. They just know how to tease. <<<< nakow! ‘to ang forte ko - teasing! wanna try? i promise you, if u will just try me…u will never let me go pa! wahaha! pwede na ba hirit ko?

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      • At 2008.10.14 04:56, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        O tukso layuan mo ako. :lol:

    • At 2008.10.13 14:01, joycee UNITED STATES said:
      Using Internet Explorer 6.0 on Windows XP

      we really cannot please everybody noh? but as long as you know you’re not doing anything bad, and you do not have unclean motives when you’re flirting, well. that, indeed is responsible flirting. basta ba you’re ready for the consequences eh, go:)

      thanks anyway for visiting my site! nice post! Ü

      joycee´s last blog post: Why I love Kerlouk, err, I mean Carla

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      • At 2008.10.14 04:57, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        Tama! I couldn’t agree more. :D

    • At 2008.10.18 10:26, meztisahen28 UNITED ARAB EMIRATES said:
      Using Internet Explorer 7.0 on Windows Vista

      flirting is another way of socializing… it’s a sad misconception as one concludes it in a typical negative way..anyhow, walang masama ang pgpi flirt,just as long as u know how to do it, when to start and to end it,and how to enjoy it…

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      • At 2008.10.18 11:06, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

        AMEN!

    • At 2008.10.26 06:59, edwin REPUBLIC OF KOREA said:
      Using Internet Explorer 6.0 on Windows XP

      nice eye opener article pal!

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      • At 2008.12.08 20:09, Helena PHILIPPINES said:
        Using Mozilla Firefox 3.0.4 on Windows XP

        Naks! Naks! Palakpakan para kay Neytan!!

        Bat ngayon ko lang nabasa to???

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        • At 2008.12.10 09:54, kirksydney PHILIPPINES said:
          Using Mozilla Firefox 1.5 on Windows XP

          Eh kasi ngayon mo lang nakalkal. :lol:


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