Two days ago, I received a surprising call from a long time friend who happens to be the subject of my previous entry. From the moment she started talking, I instantly felt the tension and the emotions she wanted to convey to me. She was extremely down. I just let her speak and I just kept on listening to her every words. I felt her sudden urge to cry in her voice. All that she mentioned repeatedly was ” Nath, akala ko masakit na yung ginawa ni (name of a guy), mas masakit pa pala to”. Me, clueless on what she’s saying, asked for an explanation. It was later I found out that she’s two weeks pregnant and the guy who’s my friend as well doesn’t want to take the responsibilities. I got tongue tied. I didn’t know how to comfort her as I am not good in words when it comes to difficult situations like hers. I just told her that sooner or later, everything will fall into their right places. I’m aware that that didn’t even lessen the pain she has but what can I do, that’s all that I could offer at that time. More or less after 5 minutes, she decided to hang up the phone and continued the story through text. She wanted me to talk to my guy friend and make him realize what he had done. According to her, she chose me because she knows that that same situation happened to me before and I was able to surpass it.
Yes, I’ve experienced it before but definitely a whole different story with them. At a very young age, I became a father to a cute and smart little boy named Kurt Enzo. He was named after the lead vocalist of my favorite rockband, Nirvana. He is one of my stress busters. Just thinking of his cute gestures and talking to him can make a bad day turn into a great one. My friend’s story made me miss Kurt so much than before. I miss the way he calls me “Neethan” because he’s having a hard time pronouncing my name Neytan, hehe. But when his Mom showed him some alphabet flash cards, the letter D with the word Doughnut caught his ever changing mind. Since then, he got fond of calling me Doughnath. He is so adorable and can really make me smile effortlessly. How cute he is everytime he makes lambing and asks for Jabibi (Jollibee), yoyet (chocolates), toter (helicopter), and epen (airplane) from me. Next school year, I believe he’ll go to school already. Just now, he’s so eager to study. He keeps on borrowing her Mom’s pens and does some doodling thing on papers, chairs, tables, and even on walls. Haha. I am so proud of him. He is my son. Click the images to enlarge into a new window.
Now, while typing this article, I came up with an idea on what to tell my guy friend. I will tell him how wonderful feeling it gives to have a child, whether it was planned or not. I just hope he will have enough courage and open mindedness to accept everything wholeheartedly. Where, when, and how to begin? That I don’t know still, haha. =)
ang kyuut naman ni Kurt..
kala ko naman brand name ng perfume yung nakalagay sa The Culprit mo. impernes para kayung magkapatid..ayy, mag-tito pala (sobra ka na..haha).
sana nga yung guy na yon, ma-realize niya na it was both of them who were involved, indi un mabubuo ng mag-isa yung girl amf nanermon pa haha..
huh? windang akey. either active listening ko e poor, reading compehension ko e fair o nadaanan ko lang ang kwentong naging daddy ka na?
daddy nathan, me baby ka na pala? bat di ko alam?nyahahaha! kelan pa??
in all fairness to you and kurt …ang cute nya ha??? bigyan din kita ng good dad award!=p
…at good luck na lang sa dilemma mo..mas mahirap paintindihin sa friend mo ang situation kasi nagawa na nga nya ayawan yung pinagbubuntis nung isa mong friend..parang ang hirap na nya piliting akuin ulit yun di ba? basta ganun, good luck!=)
@ Kath: Wehehe salamat sa pagdaan.
@ Aling Baby: Amp magkapatid na binawi pa, haha. Oo nga eh, sana ma-realize nya, pero siguro nasa state of shock pa lang yun kaya ganun. Sooner, makakapag isip at makakapagdecide din yun ng maayos. I’m keeping my fingers crossed on that.
@ Sommer: Bwahaha! Hinde ka naman nagtatanong eh. Nagulat pa ko sa PM mo sa YM, sensya na hinde ako makareply ng maayos, naghahang eh.
Pero ano nga ulet yung tanong mo dun? Yung Mom ni Kurt? Andyan lang sya, pabasa basa. Ewan ko lang kung magccomment yun dito, hehe. Tsaka Kurt Enzo, hinde Kenzo. Hahaha.
…hmpft! denial king na naman ang dc king? naghang na ba bagong term sa dc???nyahahaha!!!
…alin nga? ayy, sino pala? malamng maganda kasi gwapo si kurt (hindi kenzo!nyahaha) bagay sila ni avatar ko ah!!!=) pare!!!!
Haha hang talaga. Ang tagal before ko makita yung messages mo.
Hmm basta makikita mo din yun, kapag nagcomment dito, tuturo ko sayo. Pag hinde, pasensyahan na lang, haha. Ay teka, sino ba yang nasa avatar mo? Tsaka ilang taon na yan?
…hmmm, pahihirapan din kita ah! a) ako yan nung birhen pa ako b)anak ko din yan (ang lagay kaw lang me anak) c) ampon ko d) pamangkin ko. mg3 na sya pero me pagkashumboy din yan e (it runs in the blood!tsk!)
…sana pagnagcomment sya sabihin nya na sya mama kurt para macongratulate ko sya at maitanong kung bakit..bakit ikaw??nyahaha..joke lang po!!!
Wow she’s turning 3? Si Kurt din, this September 28. Kaso amp mana sayo? Baka kawawain anak ko, wak na lang, hahaha. Hmmm online ata ngayon yung Mom nya, nakita ko nagpost ng bulletin sa Friendster eh (oi, pupunta yan ng Friendster, hahanapin sa list ko, hahaha!). Cge antayin mo magpost ha, tapos tanungin mo kung baket ako.
uuy, pede!heheh! anong kawawain? mabait yun, mana sa akin e.hehehehe!
…nyahahaha, wag ko n nga hanapin..nakikitang pumasok ako friendster mo e.=) good na friends kayo. ask ko talaga noh…bakit ikaw???
Oo nga, kitang kita pangsstalk mo sa Friendster ko.
Baket nga ba ako? Hmmm basta. And yeah, we stay as friends. =)
anung kaguluhan itu?
ako, indi na magtatanong…magbabasa na lang ako ditu kasi may aamin din haha.
ang kyut talaga ni kenzo..ayy kurt enzo pala.
Ayun si Aling Baby, abang abang. Hahaha.
…papasok lang ako ster mo pag bago pix mo, me nakita akong bago o para tingnan si you-know-who!nyahahahaha!!! (kainis kasi pati minutes nakikita mo!hmpft!) …pede ka ba invite bestfriend ko? tingnan daw nya pix mo?;p
…bakit ikaw? baka naman dinaan mo sa alak!nyahaha! (joke lang po!)..ok sila mumu? (ayun yun e, chika itow!)
Sinong ‘you know who’?
Hinde ko ata kilala yun ah. Tsaka sinong bespren yan? Wala namang syang mapapala sa pics ko eh, haha.
Alam ni Mumu kung sino. Ask nyo sya? =p
bloghopping.
..si ano…charot!! basta yung tinanong ko sayo nuon na nasa friendster mo. at bestfriend ko, hindi nya. kasi nakwento ko kayo sa kanya..gusto nya makita face value mo…kung me value nga!heheheh!!!
…di pa nga ko nakakpasok bahy ni mumu e.=( offline pati sya…
@ Winkii: Wow! Ka-Barangay pala kita?
Great! =)
@ Sommer: Ahh oo sya nga, natanong ko sya kay Mama Shai. Then si Mama Shai sabi baket bigla ko daw natanong. Sabi ko wala lang, naisip ko lang bigla nung nakita ko sa Friendster ko. Amp nagpapalusot pa ko dahil sayo, haha. Lagot kais ako sayo pag sinabi ko, haha.
..nyahahhaa!! thank you lolo!!! promise, mabait na ako sayo!! di na kita aasarin, di na kita tatawaging dc king..ay hindi, tatawagin pa din kitang dc king kasi di ako sinungaling!!bwahahahaha!
…me pix si kurt sa previous post mo, yung naligo sya sa pool with yaya, yung mama ba nya yung kasama ni kurt sa taas nung pix with yaya?kung sya nga ang mama..maganda ha? kaya BAKIT NGA IKAW???bwahahaha!
DC king pala ha, matext nga si Mama Shai para masabi lahat2x, haha. Just kidding. Nagulat ako, may common friend pala tayo? Ay friend ko lang pala, hinde mo pala friend, hahaha.
Wow ayan na, nangalkal na ng previous entries ko. Eager talagang malaman, haha. Pero mali, ate yun ng Mom nya so Tita yun ni Kurt. =p
..oi NATHAN, wag ha? baka biglang me mangaway sa akin, lover ako..not a fighter!charot! korek, di ko sya friend..friend mo lang! maganda na malinaw.harharhar!!! pero small world noh? ikaw friend nya?;p
…nyahahaha! hindi sya yun? wala syang pix sa posts mo? initials?
Opo ARCELI hinde na po.
Oo nga eh, kung hinde ko pa inalis yung featured friends ko, hinde mo sya makikita, hehe.
Hinde nga sya yun, and wala syang pics sa previous entries ko. Initials? Ano to blind item? Nyahahaha.
…as in gulantang ako sa featured friends mo. nwei, past is past! chos!!=)
..hmpft! kainis ka parang artista nagpapapilit pa…cge na nga wait ko n lng sya magcomment sayo..heheheh!!!
Past is past pero ehem ehem . . . *takip bibig*
Cge wait mo na lang, yun eh kung magccomment sya.
Teka, gusto mo ng clue? Hahaha.
…hudas!=) kelangan pa bang itanong yun? e pangsampung comment ko na to ah? syemps gusto ko ng clue!clue! blues clue!
Teka lang Maria Magdalena, hahahaha.
Hmmm ano ba . . . May recent comment sya somewhere. Ayan. =p
…bibas! naikot ko na lahat dito…ang recent comment naman sa halos lahat e si aling baby? o sige pagpupursige akong maghanap baka namalik mata lang ako at pagod na malaki kong mata! bukas ulit kita kukulitin nathan!
…at oo, tumambay ako sa friendster mo, hinanap si maria magdalena!! (kala ko binigay mo name e!nyahahaha!!!)
Amp baket si Aling Baby? Hahaha.
Cge try again tomorrow. 
Hayy…. Cute ni Kurt (hindi kirk) Enzo! Anak mo yan? huwaw…. sana mag-aral din siya sa Deyker soon. nyahahahhaa!!!! klasmeyt kayo? hehehe…. Tlga. hindi ko alam na may baby knpl. cool may baby sa bahay diba? totoo.. stress buster tlga sila kahit makukulit.
i wonder ilang taon ka nung sinabi mong i became a father at a “Very ” young age.
hmmm…
I’m turning 23 tomorrow ( Yeah tomorrow!) and Kurt’s turning 3 this September, now do the Math. Teacher ka naman eh, haha. Hinde kame magkasama sa bahay eh. He lives with her Mom sa Angono, Rizal. Doña Justa Village. Phase 2. Amp kumpleto.
Teka, buhay pa kaya yung deyker mo sakaling marunong na mag-blog si Kurt? Haha. Second generation na, hahaha.
as cute as you..
sadyang may mga tao lang na mabagal ang pag-mature ng pagiisip. isang konsiderasyon yan bago mo kausapin ang kaibigan mo. kasi kung sasabihin niyang di pa siya handa, anong magagawa ninoman, hindi ba?
aba. artistahin ang arrive ng litol boy ah! congrats! bibong bibo pati!
babies are blessings, sana nag-anak na rin ako ng maaga, hahaha… bakit kasi nagpigil pa kami ni habibi… bwahahaha… 18 palang ako bf ko na si habibi… may advantage at disadvantage din ang pagkakaroon ng baby at an early age… 26 na ako, married at nahihirapan makabuo… sana may baby na rin kami, hehehe…
ang cute ng son mo
the name’s cute din, parang perfume nga… hahahaha…
hi fellow thomasian
sa tingin ko, tama nga yung kaibigan mo na sa yo tumakbo para kausapin yung guy.. i am sure mabibigyan mo ng totoong glimpse of what the future would be yung lalaki. kasi napagdaanan mo na ang sitwasyon na iyon. ngayon, sempre, si lalaki pa rin ang mag decide sa huling sandali. pero mabuti na rin na bigyan mo sya ng iyong piece of mind. at kung saan ka magsisimula? ikwento mo si kurt sa kanya 
@ Jenna: Hehe.
@ UM: Yun nga din naiisip ko eh, iba2x kasi level ng pag iisip ng tao. Uy, cute din si Little Munggo. Naalala ko na naman si Fred pati yung raket nilang dalawa, hehe. She’s cute.
@ Wifeybee: Wow Habibi tawag mo?
Amp may naalala ko bigla. 
26 is still not bad, but not that good din, hahaha. Sana magkababy na kayo. Wag nyo planuhin, if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. =)
@ Kengkay: Sana nga tama sya na ako ang tinakbuhan nya, hehe. Hinde kasi ako magaling sa mga payo2x na yan. Pero tama ka, malamang ikkwento ko na lang si Kurt sa kanya. Bahala na.
NATHAN!!! WHAT IS THIS?? HAHA. Tae. Nanginginig nako dito. Hahaha!!
Oops! si owsss ay si ays. HAHA.
Nag iba ng name and link.
Bat ka nanginginig? 
Ay ayun pala, akala ko sadya eh, haha. Curious sila. =)
Nagulat ako eh. Peste ka. Iintrigahin ako niyan! Hahahah!
They’re waiting for your comment actually.
Expect for some visitors sa blog mo, haha. Akala ko papaka-anonymous ka eh kasi yung first comment mo walang name, avatar, and link.
huhu..miss ko na pamangkin koh..
haaaayyy… =)
gwapo naman ng baby mo
i’m sure your boy will turn out to be a wonderful guy, after all his dad took responsibility for his actions di ba? i wonder what happened to your friend/s after you have spoken with him/them. in my opinion siguro (na germanized na rin to) - the future father needs to take responsibility for his child .pero he need not marry the woman/be together with her if he doesn’t love her anymore. what he can do is to help her raise the boy. financially , moral support, time etc.
huy. ipopost ko na ha. wait lang. dum dum dum… hahaha.
…yehey!!!
sya yun di ba nathan?
ikaw nga ba yan mom ni kurt?
…itatanong ko na…BAKIT SYA???nyahahahah!!!
…korek, dadalaw ako sa blog…hehehehe!!!
cute ni kurt
@ Joan: Lapit ka na naman umuwi eh, di ba? =p
@ Pokwang: I couldn’t agree more. Marriage is not the answer. Pero unfortunately, hinde ko pa sya nakakausap, haha. Birthday ko kahapon eh, I’ve been busy. Next week siguro pwede na.
@ Ays: Thank you. Nagulat pala ko dun sa latest entry mo.
@ Sommer: Sya nga. Haha amp tinanong talaga.
@ Mumu: =)
Having a child at an early stage is very difficult. Good that you did it.
thanks for the insightful article pal.
i suddenly missed my lil angels.. =(
yep! i already have my own two adorable gurlz…heheheheh…. *sigh*
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